Intimacy Woes? 3 Ways you can Rekindle your Relationship

Years have passed since the day when you first met and you no longer feel your spine tingle when you gaze into each other’s eyes. Work, career, responsibilities, children, and society have taken the front seat in terms of priorities and your love seems dwindling.


Add to the mix our innate urge to be dependent on Smartphones and to spend our leisure time on social media, and all the freshness in the romantic relationship just flies out of the window.


So is there no hope to revive the love and fondness you started your relationship with? Before you feel a streak of despair, let us tell you that there are ways that you can reconnect with your partner provided you’re ready to put in some extra effort and treat your relationship as your number one priority. A good start can be having a heartfelt conversation with your spouse today instead of binge-watching Stranger Things on Netflix. When you have doubts, just picture your dating period and remember those complimenting words, caring gestures and the longing to meet each other! You’d feel a renewed energy to bring back those good times!


While a better understanding of each other and the situations, addressing conflicts before they become bigger helps sustain the relationship through turmoil and discords, there are some fun and exciting yet practical ways to rekindle the old flame. Wondering what these methods could be?  Getting out of those baggy pajamas and styling yourself in some titillating lingerie could be one effective way! Don’t you think so? Confused about what to choose? Some online lingerie boutiques like Rozerra offer a spectacular range -- from scintillating babydolls to attractive loungewear, each such intimate apparel would make you confident in your own skin - the first step to stoking the fire in a relationship.


Let’s explore these methods and soon you will be able to revive the romance and passion between you two:


1.        Traveling Together

Have you always wanted to go to an exotic locale but never got the time or the right opportunity to pack your bags and leave? Well, if not now, then when? There is no dearth of romantic destinations around the world where you can go for a nice boat ride along canals, take a stroll on the quaint, cobbled streets, stay in some private & intimate boutique hotels or luxury resorts, watch seductive sunsets across the seas or just have fun trying new dishes and delicacies or a simple ice-cream. Imagine walking along the pristine white-sand beaches in Maldives; watching the sunset across the soothing blue Aegean Sea right from the comforts of your hotel balcony in Santorini, Greece; taking a glimpse of the numerous artistic Frescos in Florence, cozying up looking at some of the art and sipping coffee in the sidewalk cafes in the ultimate romantic destination, Paris or even taking a dip in the waterfalls of Hawaii; enjoying the lush greens and picturesque views of snow-capped peaks in Switzerland and taking a trip back to your hotel along frozen lakes in a horse-drawn carriage (Perfect place to cuddle up, don’t you think?).  So what are you waiting for? Plan a romantic getaway and gear up to reignite the romance.


2.        Movie Nights, Date Nights and Fun Activities for Two

When you revisit those days of your dating/courtship, you remember the stolen glances, the blushing, the passionate kisses, and the pleasant daydreaming about the time when you will be with each other -- when moments spent in the other’s absence would seem like an eternity. Now it all feels like a dream or a bygone era! In the initial days, you’d have easily watched a movie that you don’t like just for the sake of your beau. Much time has passed since then and you cannot seem to fathom the idea of doing something together as a couple. Well, there’s the start! If you want to go past the frustration and resentment that has started to simmer between you two, it’s time you start doing fun and adventurous activities together. There are several adventurous activities that you can participate in as a couple – from scuba diving classes, hiking to camping in the mountains, skydiving and more, this could be your chance to find your lost love amid adventure.


Alternatively, plan a movie marathon at home for an entire day or go out for a movie you both would like. The movie time can be arranged as part of a date or you may separately plan one so that you can spend some alone time together as a couple. Dress up for the occasion with an elegant outfit just like you’d have on your first date together and don’t miss out on sensual intimate apparel. Online lingerie stores such as Rozerra can help you take your best pick. This takes us to our next point - making an attempt to revive the passion and sexual intimacy with figure-flattering and delightful lingerie items.


3.        Dressing Down in a Sultry and Attractive Nightwear

If there are stages to rekindling a relationship, this would be the final stage depending on what is amiss between couples. At times, when emotional kindling is the need of the hour, traveling and couple activities can really reinstate the bloom in the rose, following which, dressing in seductive lingerie can seal the deal.


If you’re in a fix as to what type of lingerie will help you look and feel your best beautiful while triggering a naughty night ahead at the same time, check out online lingerie stores with a wide variety of trendy, sensuous and nuanced intimate wears, the likes of From multiple bra categories – plunge bras, push-up bras, bodysuits, laced bras, sporty bras, bralettes, padded bras to panty variants like G-strings, seamless and bikini among others, we and are well-equipped to provide you with a diverse range of lingerie, lingerie sets, luxurious nightgowns, plus-size lingerie, swimwear, shapewear and much more. For couples, we also offer a Love Aasan or a chaise lounge which is ideal for love-making. The best part is that you can have access to these and more choices all in the comfort of your own home where you can browse freely and choose wisely.


Life can get exhausting with the autopilot lives we live – the mundane routines and the unwavering dependence on technology can bear too harsh on us. We might start viewing the TV or the computer as mediums to vent out our frustration and forget that we have each other for company, solace, and affection. This is the time for bringing some fun, adventure and foreplay into your lives to spice up your love life and strengthen your relationship with your partner.


Start off with weekend excursions, playing board games, writing love notes, trying a new spot for going on date nights, dancing spontaneously at home or simply putting up a tent in your backyard for some star-gazing and let the fun, frolic and spirit of adventure spill into your bedroom at the end of it all. Bring back the rosy shades of life especially as life’s responsibilities bear heavily on you. Shake things up romantically with your beloved! Fall in love all over again!